What Do Men Want?

Most men have questioned,” What exactly do women want?”  I am not playing coy here but I am aware that men are complex creatures hence it is never easy for women to figure out what men really desire.

Despite the category in which every man falls in, there are regular things that every man is looking for in a woman. Now the question is are you that type of a woman that men dream about being with? If not all, most women want to be an object of desire-the kind of woman that men talk about, dream about and admired by men.

So what do men really desire in a woman and are you that woman? Well the first and most important thing to remember is to BE REAL-be who you really are, rather than try to be what you should be or who you think people want you to be. It is easy to sense a real person from an artificial one and one of the main turn offs for a man is a woman who is not herself and gives off a forged vibe.

After carrying various discussions with many men on what they would look forward from a woman, below are some of the aspects which appeared most.

Dress Fashionably:  

Wearing the most expensive attire is not the most important thing to a man, but it is important that a woman keep up with her appearances. A woman who dresses sharply comes off as a woman who is successful and who treats herself with love and respect and therefore a man will not want to do less for her either-he will love and respect you too. So it is advised that a woman should keep herself updated with fashion and keep herself groomed. This will not only draw men to you, but one feels good about themselves-which is the first priority before you please anyone else.

Be Sweet and Feminine:  

Today women have become more independent and career oriented but this does not give you the green light such that you give up and forget your feminine roots. Women are weak creatures after all they are sweet and giving and it is important for a man to see these qualities in a woman. Women should know that it is not weak to show a man that you are sweet and care taking after all this is the type of a woman a man dreams coming home to-someone who will lovingly welcome him with a sweet feminine smile and take care of him. However it is of paramount importance that a woman should never lose her special feminine roots its good she shows her man her sweet and romantic side.

Tell Him what you want:  

It is common knowledge that every man wants a woman who will treat him beautifully without you having to give him directions and women should lower their standards when it comes to this. However, women have to remember that man cannot read minds and let’s face it; women are emotionally unpredictable creatures and are not always easy to read. Most men love it when a woman has the strength and confidence to tell him what she wants. Men want to please women and it’s highly encouraged that women should not be afraid to open up and let their men know what it that is important to them is.

Someone Who Impresses Them: 

Many women get the message that men are threatened or turned off by intelligent, powerful women, but a friend of mine told me,” that’s pure fiction.” Guys want someone they respect. From the discussion I heard with many guys they cited intelligence as a highly desirable quality; quite a few admitted that they are. Strong really is beautiful, so put your best self forward.

Someone who tells it straight: 

 Guys do not want to have to play games or guess what a woman wants, so they’re drawn to honesty, sincerity and the ability to communicate clearly. If you’re straightforward about how you feel and what you want, he can react to you rather than waste time trying to gauge what’s really going on. Men are not exactly professional when it comes to reading women’s minds, and they know it. Being upfront about how you feel can make it a little easier for your man to figure out what exactly do you require.

Funny and Exciting Companion:

There are things that a man will discuss with a woman if the level of communication and trust has been established. Sharing activities can also be a healthy to build relationships. Exciting to some men may mean to the library together. The best on this category is for one to know what they enjoy most and find men who enjoy such activities. If two people spend the whole week sharing some activities, they are likely to get along better.

Share Meals with Your Man: It is advisable for women to share meals with their partner and this improves the quality time they spend together in building a better bond. A man who expects every woman to cook every meal might improve his relationship by offering to clean-up dishes or surprise his woman by cooking a home-cooked meal of his own.

Look Great (Be Your Best ever): 

 To prove this one should go to any sporting event like football, cricket, and check out how the player’s wives and girl friends look when their loved ones are in the game. They look with jerseys written the names of their husbands.

Give Him some Private time to be left Alone:  

 Some men need few minutes to unwind when they walk in the door before sharing the day’s challenges. Some women need this space too but generally most women prefer to launch into the daily review where they engage their men into this habit of hugs, kisses etc which is not bad but they is need to give them (men) some space to rest for a while.

Anozivashe Shumba